I am 39 and pregnant, husband is 52. I have some questions.?

The decision to have the child is one you have to make. The other children are older and will have to find their own lives at some point. His children are not children anymore. A baby could push him away or do just the opposite. It is amazing what effects babies have on us adults. I am 25 but my husband is 46 and we have a 13 month old son together. He is a great father. My husband says that he feels like he is at a place in his life where he can fully appreciate raising a child. I don't think either of you are too old. Older parents have the benefit of knowledge that most 20 year old parents don't. Either way you have to make the best choice for you and your family and I wish you all of the best with your decision.